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Losing one’s religion, or how anxiety causes suffering in faith

4/19/2017

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​Faith is a river that ebbs and flows through uneven terrain. Look at it from a distance and you will see, in time, how the shifting landscape changes the river’s course. Sometimes the geography can even bring the river to a halt.

​The loss of faith is not an easy subject to discuss, though it arouses curiosity among the religious and non-religious alike. Moreover, personal experiences of losing faith differ greatly. I will make a distinction here between those relieved and those distressed by their loss in faith. This distinction serves little more than to filter those suffering in their faith (a ‘crisis in faith’) from those who are not. The purpose of this article is to reflect on a particular form of spiritual anguish.

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Cultural identity and its political nature within therapeutic space

4/8/2017

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Guest editorial found here: ​http://clinicallyappliedanthropology.com/2017/04/07/cultural-identity-and-its-political-nature-within-therapeutic-space/
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Addiction to pornography and its unbearable solution

12/22/2016

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Professor Simon Louis Lajeunesse’s (University of Montreal) research question was simple: how do men who watch pornography differ from men who do not? The study was destined to fail before it even began; professor Lajeunesse was unable to find a single participant that has not consumed pornography at some point in their lives (he completed his research documenting the repercussions of pornography consumption nonetheless). Pornography is a big business, so it should come as no surprise that Muslims feed this industry like anyone else. Muslim communities are increasingly alarmed by the prevalence of porn addicts in their midst, though the subject remains largely taboo in public sermons. Thankfully, websites like PurifyYourGaze fill a void community leaders dismiss.

​This article will unpack a crucial element hindering many from embarking on a journey of recovery, based on my own readings and client observations. I will begin the discussion however with a remark: we can become addicted to anything. Facebook, internet, friends, news, video games – it’s not all sex and drugs. There are many roads to addiction, one of which is the avoidance of unwanted thoughts and feelings. Instead of studying for an exam for example, we turn to video games to avoid feelings of failure – anxiety. If this occurs long enough, video gaming becomes an addiction. Rather than enjoying a game for its own sake, the hobby serves as a respite from anxious thoughts. Pornography and food share similar distress-relieving qualities. They are exciting and effective tools that help us forget our selves and circumstances. One thing separates sex and food from other addictions however: their inescapability. Unlike playing video games, human beings were created with drives to eat and procreate (if the reader believes humans evolved, it amounts to the same thing). Lust and gluttony are thus persistent and lifelong demons for those wrestling with them. 

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